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Innermost House

Diana's First Publication

Diana's Innermost House publications are visited each month by readers from over a hundred nations of the world. The following is her first appearance in print, published on the web's leading source for small houses, tinyhouseblog.com

Diana's Innermost House

A Guest Post by Diana Lorence March 3rd, 2011

This is Innermost House, my home in the coastal mountains of Northern California. It is the latest of many very small houses my husband and I have occupied over twenty-five years, all for the same reason— to make possible a simple life of reflection and conversation. I am delighted now to be a part of Kent’s public conversation with others who share my love of tiny houses, and I’m grateful to Michael Janzen of Tiny House Design for introducing us.

Innermost House is about twelve-feet square. It faces directly south beneath an open porch that shelters our front door. A hill rises to the north behind us and the forest of oak and redwood lies all around. The house encloses five distinct rooms: to the east is a living room eleven feet deep by seven feet wide by twelve feet high; to the west the house is divided into kitchen, study, and bathroom, each approximately five feet deep by three feet wide, with a sleeping loft above the three of them, accessible by a wooden ladder we store against the wall.

The living room is the heart of the house. It is where my husband and I spend most of our time, and where we receive our guests. On the east wall of the room is a small fireplace set a foot above the floor, with a hearth extension of bricks projecting a foot and a half into the room. On the west side is a wall of books four feet wide and seven feet tall. Between these walls of hearth and books, our two low chairs sit facing each other a couple of feet apart. Everything about the space is conceived to make a harmony of conversation possible.

I know that sounds strange in a world where conversation seems to go on all the time every day. But pause for a moment and try to remember the single most moving and meaningful conversation you ever had. Perhaps it was with your mother or father in days long past, or with your husband or wife when you were first in love. Perhaps it was when you said goodbye to someone for the very last time.

Now, how would you design, build and furnish a place so that those conversations could happen every day? That is the question we asked of every detail of Innermost House, and we are still asking it.

The fireplace is where our conversation begins, just as it began a million years ago when human language and domesticated fire were born together. The fireplace is the original tiny house. After all, what is a cave or a tipi or a wigwam but a big, enclosing fireplace? The fire is our link with the wild. Gazing into the fire seems to release our dream life into words.

The books complete the circle of conversation on the other side. They are our link with the world. All of our books have been carefully chosen over the years as contributing something essential to the Innermost Life. It is strange that it was not until I saw them all together, illuminated by the fire at Innermost House, that I realized nearly every one was first written by firelight. In some way they represent the last light cast from that first fire at the mouth of a cave.

We do not have electricity or power of other kind, so we warm the cabin and cook our food and heat our water for bathing all over the fire. Our firewood comes of local orchard prunings that would otherwise be burned as waste in the field. In the summer we cook over coals and wash with cold water. We light our home with beeswax candles. After examining all the options, we installed a conventional septic system, though we use very little water.

The house is of mixed post and beam and stick construction. Our floor is of yellow pine tongue & groove planks, our ceiling of fir planks and rafters and beams. Our interior walls are of plain white gypsum plaster applied by hand over blue board. The exterior walls are clad in rough-sawn redwood board and batten. The roof is of cedar shakes. Both the redwood and the cedar are naturally resistant to rot, fire, and insects — all important considerations in the woods. The house is constructed of natural, simple materials, with a lot of care taken to render them neat and plain.

Real wood, real plaster, real materials of all kinds. The real things really do make a difference, at whatever sacrifice they must be had. It’s worth waiting and saving for if you can.

The building project required the better part of a year for two men working part time. A good deal of that time was spent in familiarizing ourselves with the traditional building language of the region. We would have built a rather different house in New Mexico or Massachusetts or Virginia. My husband always limits himself to the vernacular of a region so that, as he says, nature can have a hand in the building.

This kind of life has been made possible for us by living in partnerships of one kind or another over the years, often in guest houses. We have moved many times, and have never owned a home. My husband is a private confidant and friend to people in public positions. Men come to him for the special kind of conversation he makes possible. Innermost House was built for us on the land of such a partner and friend. Many local building ordinances allow for small guesthouses.

I have loved our small houses, and I love Innermost House most of all. There are many reasons for wanting to live in a tiny house. A simple life of high conversation is my reason. I could not live any other way.

A Sampling of Readers' Comments

"The Most Inspiring Small House Ever."

"One of the most beautiful houses I’ve ever seen--of any size."

"I will sleep tonight with your Innermost House in my heart."

"Oh, wow. That is amazing and beautiful!… just, wow. Gorgeous."

"When I saw the photos of your home I felt that it was a place inside of me, that I’d always known. I love being there."

"Oh, this is one of those inspiring moments that makes my life seem foolishly complicated and expensive. This is radically simple, yet expertly and artfully executed. Now, what shall I do with this?"

"Diana you are the NEW HERO of the simple living movement! Can’t wait to see and hear more from you soon… "

"I am absolutely drooling here....that place is awesome."

"Simply Beautiful. Beautifully Simple. A conversation in itself, for sure."

"Beyond perfect!"

"Speechless. So much I want to say and yet I can find no adequate words. Here is a way of life that I thought was relegated to the past or that existed only in books. Less is more. How rich you are. You inspire me."

"It reminds me of a chapel – a little bit Quaker, a little bit early pilgrim, radiating peace and contentment."

"I feel as if you have invited...us...into a most private –and quite spiritual –moment. This life is all about truth and relationships, yes?"

"How beautiful! Even the pictures gave me a feeling of serenity."

"This is house that has a strong presence. It asks why –why do you live the way you do..."

"Very inspiring...Searching for this simplicity of lifestyle."

"...a perfect illustration of the value of quality. The traditional styling is brilliant and elegant...resonates as a visual poem on the heart."

"You must visit her web site, the words and images there will change your life a little. I want so much to jump ahead to where she is now. I must remember that it is a long slow process of letting go of things, habits and distractions. Yes, you could just sell all your stuff and move to the woods and it would be a start, but Diana and her husband have carefully chosen not only what to take and what to leave, but what to expose themselves to and what to think about. Every facet of there lives, chosen. that takes time."

"...spectacular! Every inch looks to be perfection. Great to see how beautifully you can live off grid. It looks so full of warmth and happiness."

"I read everything on your site yesterday, many times your words and stories brought me to tears. I am deeply affected by the beauty and grace of your words and home."

"Truly, words cannot express the beauty of this house and ideas that accompany it. And as I write this, over and over, deleting and rewriting, to try to express the feelings these pictures evoke, I find I am just without words. Thank you so much for sharing your story."

"Absolutely stunning. Beautiful. I’m in awe!"

"Thanks for giving us a glimpse of the joy, peace and richness of a truly simple life."

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